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Six
Acts of Courage
It
is said that courage is the ability to resist and defeat feeling
of fear. The most courageous acts of respected Martial Artists often
have little to do with their ability to dominate others with their
physical prowess, but more with their inner strength.
Courageous people
are grown, not born, but the seeds of courage are inside us all.
Here are six ways that Martial Artists can develop their own courageous
spirits:
TAKE RISKS.
Trying to avoid the unknown, avoid failure, or avoid the truest
self can drive to keep things exactly as they are. The fear of risk
is a powerful one, but facing it can mean tremendous positive change
in your life, The trick is to commit yourself to the risk
prepare as well as you can then take the plunge!
STAY OPEN TO
LEARNING. What happens, for example, when a risk doesnt seem
to pay off? Lets say you dont make the team now
what? Before you decide that the risk- taking is a mistake, think
about what you can learn from your situation. Do you need to change
your approach to training for Taekwon Do? Did you really understand
what the Instructors expect from you? Every experience you have
in life makes you savvy and better prepared for future challenges
and opportunities.
CARE ABOUT OTHERS.
As simple as it sounds, letting others know that you care is becoming
increasingly difficult to do. In a cynical society its easy
to be defensive of your emotions attachments have the potential
to hurt. Take the time to get to know the people in your life, and
take a chance on caring. The rewards of participating in a mutually
supportive relationship will be well worth it.
LET OTHERS CARE
FOR YOU. On the other hand, letting yourself seem vulnerable enough
to need others can be more difficult! Human beings are naturally
interdependent. We need physical contact, social interaction, and
love to be our best. Make sure you have someone in your life you
trust enough to ask for help, and when someone offers assistance,
try saying, yes once in a while.
ADMIT YOUR MISTAKES.
When something goes wrong, take a good look at everything that might
have contributed to the issue. Ask yourself: What role did I play,
directly or indirectly, in creating this problem? Most importantly,
what can I do to find a solution?
STAND UP FOR
WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.
Its not
easy to believe that the sky is blue when everyone around you is
insisting that its green. Consider the arguments of others
they may have something to teach you- but ultimately stand
firmly by your beliefs- belief in your principles and belief in
yourself.
Your quest for
Black Belt excellence embodies each of these acts of courage. Each
time you go to class, you are taking a bold step forward in your
growth. Recognize your strength, and make these acts, and others,
a conscious part of your everyday life. The writer Guillaume Appolinaire
created this image of courage:
Come
to the edge, he said.
They said,
We are afraid.
Come
to the edge, he said.
They came.
He pushed them
And they flew.
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